You Dont Worry About Fitting In When You Are Custom Made.

Growing up is an endless valley of trying to find the people that get along with you or have the same niche as you. You want to fit in?? DONT. No one was created with 1000 and one copies of themselves. It’s exhausting! I remember being in college and meeting a lot of diverse people and I learnt the hard way that being yourself is the best thing you can be. I’m not saying don’t make friends. Am just saying that friends,relationships aren’t worth sacrificing who you are. I believe the minute you try to fit it is the minute you start to loose yourself. My fear of not being good enough evaporated when I understood that our life’s stories and history of the world were written by the same hand. 

I know we all want be cool and be noticed, but authenticity of ones self is “being cool”. You don’t need to dress or act a certain way to be appreciated, and if they don’t appreciate you for you then they aren’t meant for you. You can only find your best friend if you are 100% yourself, not 50% of someone else. The lesson I learnt this year is “it’s better to be alone than surrounded by people that are detrimental to your well being or people who bring you down”. I rather stay alone in my room watching Netflix or at a restaurant sipping tea and maybe the closest to me is my pet cat but it’s worth settling for that than with detrimental people. Being alone is lonely, alone-lonely both words correspond but it shows that you don’t settle for anything less and that’s not a bad thing.

📸 by kaniz.


Last Day Of May

I decided to entice my viewers with a bit of fashion with faith. We all need a little fashion inspiration every now and then-especially during this time of year when the weather outside is still abit frightful.

Yesterday I went for my first ever shoot. Time to tick that of my bucket list, as a lover for selfies I thought doing a shoot will be easy. It was not! But with great company it’s possible. It took me a while to reach my comfort zone but when I did. Magic happened.

I learnt a lot during this shoot.

 I understood why they had music on at photoshoots….. It makes you forget for a while that people are watching and the most unexpected photos come out the most authentic. I let loose and imagined I was there all alone dancing.

Scarf: from aysher_trendz, black coat:28$ shoes:1000ksh,dress:1500ksh

Thank you for making this happen.